We the .........

In We the people, one of the famous talk shows in indian tv, the issue of sex-change was discussed. Barkha Dutt, the host was quite good in handling the sensitive issue.

What struck me was the fact that many none of the young men there got a chance to talk. It was either the panelists or the 3 guests who would talk.

The way one of the three guests - Tista - behaved was quite annoying. Her response was too dramatic.

A few actually cried. I don't know why? It appeared so silly on the screen.
Next time Ms. Dutt, make sure you invite people who respond to questions and not (over) react to them.

New Year?

The year 2006 has come to an end. Have you ever realized how fast time moves on. I sometimes do. Especially when I'm caught up with lots of work, when there are deadlines to meet, or when a careless laid back attitute is not expectected.

This year had changed me to a large extent. As far as my closet life is concerned, its yet to see light of the day. I did meet a guy I would love to call my partner. But couldn't take my frendship with him any further. Don't know why..... I find him irresistably attractive although my view of a perfect guy is slightly different from the way he is.

Hope this new year will get me closer to him.

Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!

I wonder what these Santas have got themselves for Christmas????????

Is he gay?

Is he gay? This is the question I repeatedly asked myself for about two hours. In fact, I had been asking this question for as long as 12 years now. Its only the person that the word ‘he’ refers to that changes.

This time, it refers to this guy I met a few months ago. He managed to attract me the moment I set his eyes on me. He has a fair complexion, and a slim body that is little less than 6 feet tall(that’s the normal height here in South India). He is one of the most handsome guys I had seen. My crush on him was quite spontaneous. At first sight, he seemed much like an ordinary guy. I did not even think he could be gay. When I started talking to him, the way he talked raised this suspicion in my mind. Needless to say, I was excited. That was strasnge because, I normally don’t like guys with so-called feminine attributes (no offence). But, this guy was certainly an exception. I didn’t find him eyeing any guy or girl during the entire conversation. The way he moved his hands, the tone in his speech… all made me question his sexuality. Recently, I caught him looking at a girl as she passed. I thought I knew the answer for my question. It was not an exciting ‘yes’. But, within minutes, I found looking at a guy, passing by. From the way he looked (in both the incidences), I could say that he was ‘eyeing’ them. I mean, he scanned the entire body in just a second. I would do that only when I find some really good-looking guy. Unfortunately, I did not see them (the guy and the girl) as I was standing in front of him and the walked by behind me.

Until the last few days of my college, the word, ‘he’ referred to one of my classmate. I did find him attractive but he was not the kind of guy you would naturally tend to think when you say handsome. His round eyes, small lips and those soft thighs made me like him for almost 3 years. Not that I don’t like him anymore.

When I was in school, ‘HE’ was another ordinary guy about whom I mention in my first blog.
I’m sure I’m not the only guy in this world with this question. Many would have found themselves being haunted by the same question many times.

If you are reading this, and had the same problem, can you tell me how to fix this.

Bigger the better?

Bigger the better???????

If you are talking about a man's most potent weapon, then you are probably right. Atleast, that's what many men seem to think. A recent survey among revealed that many Indian men do not measure up to the mark.

For all those who were gifted with a shorter version of the sexual tool, it has been a matter of embarrassment only in the closed confines of their bedroom. This might change in the near future. That is, if the Indian-sized condoms share shelf space with the international-sized ones at the Indian markets.

I had never used a condom. I never had to. So, I don't really know what it means to use one that is over-sized. (Anybody there to help!!!) I'm quite sure that the Indian men would rather not use them than reveal their true size to a chemist... especially if they are not too proud of their scale. The guys who had invested a lot of effort in taking the survey will be certainly disappointed if this were to happen. After all, this measuring mission was undertaken to control the sexual transmission of HIV/AIDS.

If health ministry here and the allied organizations decide to launch this Desi-condoms in the market, I would suggest, you simultaneously launch an ad campaign that features some of the hottest hunks telling the world how proud they are of their size. This would surely make Indian men feel much better.